Baby Lullaby

~ The Best Time for Borning a Baby ~

Generally speaking there is no ideal time for borning a baby.

Each couple has their own time they find ideal: you and your

husband are ready to become parents, both of you are in good

health and your financial circumstances are in good condition.

All of these things are independent from your age.

But you have to understand well that pregnancy, borning of the

baby and parenting will change your life significantly. Your

life will never be as careless as it was before.

A survey was carried out asking what time modern women belive to

be the most convenient for having a baby. The age range of 20-28

was found to be the one.

42 % believe that the couple should start thinking of a baby

when they are 23 - 25 years old, 28% say that it should be in 20

- 22, 18% say that it should be in 26 - 28.

Nobody thinks that it is OK to have a baby before twenty or

after thirty.

Let`s make a short list of advantages and disadvantages of

having a baby in each age range.

* Early pregnancy (before 20)

The main disadvantage is you are too young to be a mother. You

do not understand well what you want from life, what man you

want to spend your life with and so on.

Also your education is not finished yet and your financial

condition is not stable. In this case it could be very difficult

for you even to buy pampers for your baby.

Enjoy your youth and start thinking of a baby in several years!

* Optimal period (20-24 years)

In this period your organism is ready for the pregnancy, but ...

having a child in 22 is rather an exception nowadays than a

common case.

First of all your education has to be finished. Your are more

responsible in finding your other half, you want to find a good

job and dream of making an excellent career. Be careful: if you

can find two reasons of not having a baby in 20, you will

certainly find a lot more in 25, and will delay the baby again

and again.

This period of your life is the best time for pregnancy!

* Less optimal period (25-30)

Quite a lot of women think this time is the most suitable

period: by this time you have your own home, your finances are

balanced and your beloved man is with you. And the main thing

you can spend a lot of time with your future child not thinking

of your studies and work.

Your contemporaries are thinking about trying for the second

baby, risk for the first!

* Your thirties (30 - ...)

According to the statistics the number of women giving birth to

their first child after 30 is growing every year. You must know

that after 26 woman becomes less and less prepared for

pregnancy. Your organism has suffered from a lot of things: your

bad habits such as smoking and overeating, bad environment and

what not! These are the main reasons responsible for possible

deviations of the development of baby.

Your activity is decreasing and parenting will take a lot more

from you then in 20.

At the same time late children are more talented and gifted then

those borned by young mothers.

Do not delay the appearance of baby in your life! If your

friends babies make you smile and you have chosen the name for

your own one and you are able to buy diapers and rattles, do not

hesitate give birth!

About the author:

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